Get a notebook and a pen. Write down the top 10 things you need in a partner. After listing those, create a checklist: use a check for qualities he meets and an "X" for those he doesn't. Whether you currently have someone or are entering a relationship, assess if the person aligns with your needs. If you enter a relationship without understanding your choice, you may face challenges with unmet expectations. If your partner struggles to be emotionally available, recognize that emotional intellige